Big dog has an ear infection. He’s been dealing with it for three weeks now. Today, it’s morphed into stomach gurgles in the morning and...

I was talking about Lemur this week, and a compliment I received almost made me cry. “It’s so refreshing to hear people speak well of...

“It’s been a long, hard year.” I’m already quoting “Thank God It’s Christmas,” and it’s not even Thanksgiving yet. 2018 has been a...

A year ago today, we lost our grumpy-old-man dog. Still the worst day of my life. I know, some horrible shit happened in the last 365...

I excel at telling people to get out of my life. I have the coldest cold shoulder. I mute, block, and delete before I say, “Fuck you,”...

I’m healing. I am. But every once in awhile, I read something, or watch something, or just notice something around the house that reminds...

I am a white hetero/demisexual cisgender woman. I sometimes say the wrong thing. The ignorant thing. The stupid thing. The privileged...

Our house isn’t cluttered, per se. We don’t have much cupboard space in the kitchen, but we do have plenty of storage throughout the...

In all this darkness, I would like to take a moment to reflect on the good that has happened in the last week to restore my faith in...

We’ve known this was coming. You could have guessed, too, if you follow the blog. I mentioned it here, here, and here. Our dog, named for...

Ten years ago this month, we said goodbye to my grandmother. Without her, I would not be the independent soul I am today. She gave me a...

The election’s over and we didn’t die. We didn’t win, but we didn’t die. We weren’t immediately struck off the face of the planet by an...

We made it. Many of us have already cast our votes. Others are just getting off work and heading to the polls. We have made it into the...

I met Lemur 20 years ago today! I talked about that day a little bit on my Evolution of a Gamer post, if you want to check it out. The...

I’ve never been one for bucket lists. There are experiences other people want to have before they die that don’t interest me, or that I...

Tuesday’s Top Ten was postponed yesterday. We had a death in the D&D family: our dungeoneering cat extraordinaire, Baloo. He will be...

This one is personal, and contains triggers for rape. Sorry not sorry. This is my past and I own it. I wrote this post a couple of weeks...

When we said our vows, we meant them. We took out that whole “obey” bullshit, but the rest… We meant them. Lemur and I have been married...